For many couples, wedding is the happiest and most memorable moment of their life.  Nevertheless, it would be disappointing if after the wedding, your marriage never ever gets as happy as the wedding anymore.

Here are some simple tips to help sustain a happy and healthy married life.

1. Keep Christ the center of your relationship.

God is the solid foundation of your marriage. With Christ the center of your relationship, nothing can prevail to ruin your marriage. Yes, temptation, disappointment and frustration are inevitable in any relationships, but you will always find strength, forgiveness and compassion to each other in Jesus Christ.

Except the Lord build the house, they labour in vain that build it. Except the Lord keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain.  Psalm 127:1

2. Always appreciate one another.

Don’t take each other for granted, otherwise it could harm your marriage. Don’t overlook little acts of kindness, affection, courtesy and encouragement.  Surprise one another with a simple gift or token of appreciation like this beautiful  Tote-Precious And Dearly Loved for your wife, or Mug-Thankful For You for your husband.  Lack of appreciation is one of the biggest foes of marriage.

Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. Romans 12:10

3. Remember your sacred vows.

Is the warmth and love vanishing from your home? Organize your home with faith oriented home decor. While the devil tempts you to relinquish your marriage, remember your sacred vows—marriage is a holy union, a lifetime commitment.  God wants you to stay happy together and HE will help you restore the love and affection that the devil tries to steal.

So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate. Mark 19:6

4. Don’t go to bed angry.

Let your anger subside before going to bed. Be humble enough to admit your mistake and say “sorry”, be gracious enough to forgive, after all nobody is perfect.  Remember, marriage is a partnership and working together in harmony will strengthen the relationship.

And “don’t sin by letting anger control you.” Don’t let the sun go down while you are still angry.  Ephesians 4:26

5. Reflect on the Word of God together.

Make time each day to reflect on the Word of God – It is our spiritual nourishment.  God’s Word gives us the wisdom we need in our daily walk. Sharing God’s Word and His faithfulness will strengthen your bond and communication.

Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path. Psalm 119:105

6. Pray together

Pray for one another that God will give you enduring love for each other, to give you wisdom and strength for the trials that may come your way, for the provisions for all your needs, for comfort and healing.

Let all your requests be made known to God in prayers and thanksgiving, and the peace of God will guard your hearts and minds through Jesus Christ (Philippians 4:6).

7. Don’t let romance fade away.

Things are always exciting at the start, and as time passes, you might lose some spark in your marriage.  But don’t let complacency take the romance out of your relationship.  Don’t stop trying to make things exciting and memorable in your togetherness.  Break the routine, plan an adventure, try new things together, stay connected, spend time together intimately and above all,  serve the Lord together!  Keep the fire burning in your hearts!

Never let the fire in your heart go out. Keep it alive. Serve the Lord. When you hope, be joyful. When you suffer, be patient. When you pray, be faithful.  Share with God’s people who are in need. Welcome others into your homes.  Romans 12: 11-13